Why Do You Keep Waking Up With Back Pain, And It's Not Just Your Mattress
As an executive mom juggling deadlines, school drop-offs, and endless responsibilities, waking up with back pain feels incredibly unfair. You expect to start your day strong, but instead, you are battling back stiffness before your feet even hit the floor. You might assume its just a bad mattress. And while the wrong mattress can contribute, its not the only reason. In this blog, lets break down why you maybe waking up with back pain and your mattress may not be responsible for it and what you can do about it.

Stress Keeps Your Body in Tension Mode:
Even when you’re sleeping, your nervous system doesn’t fully ‘turn off’ if you're under chronic stress. Your muscles stay slightly contracted, your breathing stays shallow, and true restorative rest becomes harder to achieve.

What Happens:
  • Stress hormones prevent full muscle relaxation.
  • Micro-tension builds up, especially in the lower back, mid back, shoulders, and neck.
Small Fix:
  • Practice a simple deep breathing routine before bed to signal "safety" to your nervous system.
Daytime Habits Catch Up With You:
Hours of sitting, poor posture, and weak core engagement throughout the day compound into nighttime issues. Your body holds onto the patterns you spend the most time in.

What Happens:
  • Poor sitting postures causes muscular imbalances, such as short and tight hip flexors that pull on your lower back.
  • Lack of core support during the day leaves your spine and muscles tired.
Small Fix:
Poor Sleep Posture Builds Up Tension Overnight:
When you sleep in awkward positions, like twisted hips, a sagging lower back, or a misaligned spine, your muscles and joints spend hours in unnatural stressful states. 

What Happens:
  • Your back muscles overwork while you sleep, trying to stabilise you.
  • Ligaments and joints get pulled out of optimal alignment.
  • You wake up stiff, sore, and feeling tired.
Small Fix:
  • Use a pillow under your knees (if sleeping on your back) or between your knees (if sleeping on your side) to keep your spine and pelvis in a neutral position.
Watch this video to learn more on the pillow use and some Easy Night Time Routines To Reduce Back Pain: 


Morning back pain doesn’t have to be your new normal! If you’ve been blaming your mattress (and replacing it without relief), it’s time to look deeper. Sleep posture, stress management, and daily movement habits are powerful tools you can control, even in your busy life.

HERE is a free guide on 'How can you maintain a Good Posture while sleeping? It gives you the details of sleeping posture in side lying, back sleeping, 3 postures to avoid when sleeping and how to change to a better sleeping posture and much more.

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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach & Certified Posture Expert

I help mums of young kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage back, neck, and nerve pain, even with low energy, brain fog, and little time to spare. My proven system delivers real relief without stealing hours from your already packed day. The result? More productive professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can be fully present with their kids, instead of being sidelined by pain.



My passion comes from personal experience. I’ve been where you are: in pain, overwhelmed, and exhausted. After two pregnancies in three years, juggling my kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was stuck in a constant cycle of back and nerve pain. The physical load of motherhood added strain to my spine and joints. Meanwhile, adrenal fatigue left me drained, even after 10–12 hours of sleep.

Everyday tasks became a struggle. I was forgetful, foggy, and low on energy. Even as a trained physiotherapist and posture expert, I couldn’t escape my own pain. I stood all day at work, spent evenings on the laptop, rocked my kids to sleep, sat through endless meetings, traveled frequently ... I’ve been through it all.

I kept my pain hidden at work, afraid to speak up. I felt like a fraud, someone who coached others on relief strategies but couldn’t find relief herself. I loved my job and my children, but I couldn’t give 100% to either. Pain was holding me back.

One New Year, I made a resolution: to get healthy, not just fix pain, fatigue, or weight. I focused on reducing inflammation, healing my adrenal fatigue, and reclaiming my energy. Slowly but surely, the pain faded. I lost weight, my brain fog cleared, and my energy skyrocketed. Today, my pain is nearly gone. I feel stronger, clearer, and more in control than I have in years.
And now, I want that for you.

I combine professional expertise with lived experience to support other mums like me, those with young kids, high-stress jobs, and no time for complicated health programs. I’ve helped hundreds of women reduce spinal and joint pain, lift their energy, and clear the mental fog that holds them back.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. I got you, mommy!

Let’s get you feeling strong, confident, and fully present at work and at home.
Are you ready to start? Curious about how this works? Just ask.

Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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