Why Do Moms Wake Up Stiff & Sore: Small Sleep Mistakes That Make a Big Difference
As an executive moms, your mornings don’t always start with energy and clarity. Instead, you may wake up already feeling behind, your neck is stiff, your back aches, and your body feels like it never got the rest it needed. It’s easy to blame this on getting older or “sleeping funny,” but here’s the truth: your stiffness and soreness might have less to do with aging and everything to do with how your body is supported while you sleep. Most of us don’t even realise we are making small sleep mistakes that add up to big discomfort. In this blog, lets explore what might be happening behind the scenes and what you can start doing tonight to feel better in the morning.

Your Sleeping Position Might Be Stressing Your Spine: 
Most of us fall into whatever position feels comfortable in the moment but not all positions support your spine equally. Sleeping on your stomach or twisting your spine through the night can put unnecessary strain on your neck, lower back, and hips.

Try This instead: 
 Sleep on your back with a pillow under your knees or on your side with a pillow between your knees to support spinal alignment.

Your Pillow Could Be Part of the Problem: 
If you are waking up with neck or shoulder pain, your pillow might not be giving you the support you need. If your pillowis too high or too flat and your neck is stuck in an awkward position for hours.

Try This instead: 
Use a pillow that keeps your head in line with your spine.Side sleepers often do best with a slightly firmer, higher pillow. Back sleepers should choose something that supports the natural curve of the neck. Pillow height can vary from person to person and not one size fits all. HERE are some pillows that I personally use and recommend.

Watch this video to learn how to know the correct height for your pillow: Choosing The Right Pillow: Why It Matters For Your Sleep And Spinal Health? 


Lack of Movement During the Day Shows Up at Night:
Here is something most people don’t realise: when we don’t move enough during the day, our muscles tighten and circulation slows, leading tostiffness by morning.

Try This instead: 
Add gentle posture resets or mobility breaks throughout your day. Just 5 minutes here and there can make a huge difference in how your body feels at night. A good night time sleeping routine can also be helpful. 

You don’t have to wake up in pain! Morning soreness or stiffness isn’t just a sign of aging. Its a signal from your body that something is off. With a few intentional shifts, you can wake up feeling refreshed, supported, and ready for your day.

HERE is a free guide on "How can you maintain a Good Posture While Sleeping". It gives you the details of sleeping posture in side lying, back sleeping, 3 postures to avoid when sleeping and how to change to a better sleeping posture and much more. 

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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach & Certified Posture Expert

I help mums of young kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage back, neck, and nerve pain, even with low energy, brain fog, and little time to spare. My proven system delivers real relief without stealing hours from your already packed day. The result? More productive professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can be fully present with their kids, instead of being sidelined by pain.



My passion comes from personal experience. I’ve been where you are: in pain, overwhelmed, and exhausted. After two pregnancies in three years, juggling my kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was stuck in a constant cycle of back and nerve pain. The physical load of motherhood added strain to my spine and joints. Meanwhile, adrenal fatigue left me drained, even after 10–12 hours of sleep.

Everyday tasks became a struggle. I was forgetful, foggy, and low on energy. Even as a trained physiotherapist and posture expert, I couldn’t escape my own pain. I stood all day at work, spent evenings on the laptop, rocked my kids to sleep, sat through endless meetings, traveled frequently ... I’ve been through it all.

I kept my pain hidden at work, afraid to speak up. I felt like a fraud, someone who coached others on relief strategies but couldn’t find relief herself. I loved my job and my children, but I couldn’t give 100% to either. Pain was holding me back.

One New Year, I made a resolution: to get healthy, not just fix pain, fatigue, or weight. I focused on reducing inflammation, healing my adrenal fatigue, and reclaiming my energy. Slowly but surely, the pain faded. I lost weight, my brain fog cleared, and my energy skyrocketed. Today, my pain is nearly gone. I feel stronger, clearer, and more in control than I have in years.
And now, I want that for you.

I combine professional expertise with lived experience to support other mums like me, those with young kids, high-stress jobs, and no time for complicated health programs. I’ve helped hundreds of women reduce spinal and joint pain, lift their energy, and clear the mental fog that holds them back.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. I got you, mommy!

Let’s get you feeling strong, confident, and fully present at work and at home.
Are you ready to start? Curious about how this works? Just ask.

Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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