Easy Night time Routine to Relieve Neck & Shoulder Pain
For executive mums, managing a demanding career along with family responsibilities can often lead to stress accumulating in your neck and shoulders. Extended periods hunched over a computer or constantly lifting children can intensify this discomfort. To combat these pains and ensure a restorative night's sleep, establishing a thoughtful night time routine is essential. In this blog lets discuss how you can alleviate neck and shoulder pain before bedtime.
 
First, evaluate your sleeping position. When sleeping on your stomach the neck has be turned to either left or right in order to breathe. This forces your spine into an awkward alignment creating a lot of stress around the cervical spine thereby causing neck pain. Instead, opt for sleeping on your back or side, which supports the natural curvature of your spine and reduces strain on your neck and shoulders.

To ease out of stomach sleeping, consider the quarter-turn position, which is a hybrid between side sleeping and lying on your stomach. This position is less stressful for your spine and helps you gradually transition to sleeping fully on your side or back. Additionally, placing a pillow or two in front of you can prevent you from rolling onto your stomach during the night.

 

For back sleepers the height of your pillow should be equal to the distance between your upper back and the back of your head. Side sleepers can benefit from using a pillow whose thickness is equal to the distance between the tip of the shoulder and ear lobe.

Incorporate relaxation techniques into your night time routine, such as gentle stretching or yoga, to relieve built-up tension in the neck and shoulders. Focus on stretches that elongate the neck muscles and ease shoulder tightness. You can also use essential oils to release any tight or achy muscles to enhance the feeling of relaxation. 

End your day with a short meditation or deep-breathing exercise to reduce both physical and mental stress, which often exacerbates neck and shoulder pain. A simple technique to try is the 4-6-8 method: breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 6 seconds, and breathe out for 8 seconds or box breathing (square breathing) breathing in for a count of four, holding the breath for a count of four, exhaling for four seconds, and then holding again for four seconds similar to tracing the four straight lines of a square. Start at your comfort level and gradually build up your ability. This practice not only helps in relaxing your muscles but also calms the mind, setting the stage for a deeper and more restful sleep. 
 
For more tips on optimizing your sleeping posture, here is a free guide on "How Can You Maintain a Good Posture While Sleeping." It provides details on the best sleeping positions, postures to avoid, and transitioning to better sleep habits.
 
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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach and a Certified Posture Expert. I use my proven system to help mums of younger kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage their back, neck, and nerve pains, despite low energy levels and brain fog. I do all this without taking away a big chunk of their time out of their already busy day. This enables them to be more productive and capable professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can focus on their kids instead of always being distracted by pain. 



My passion for helping executive mums stems from my own experiences. I have been in the same boat and understand the frustration and helplessness of being in constant pain or being afraid to engage in activities due to the fear of pain. After two pregnancies in the span of three years and juggling my two kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was constantly in pain. The weight gain from motherhood added extra stress to my already overburdened spine and joints. I was stuck in a vicious cycle of weight loss and spinal/nerve pain that I just couldn’t break free from.

On top of the physical pain, I also suffered from adrenal fatigue. I often felt exhausted, waking up groggy even after a full night’s (10 to 12 plus hours!) sleep, and struggled with low energy levels and brain fog. Simple tasks became challenging, and I found myself forgetting things and unable to think clearly. It was incredibly frustrating and made it even harder to balance my professional responsibilities and family life.

My work involved long hours of standing during the day, prolonged hours on the laptop in the evening, and lots of running around and rocking my kids to sleep in between. Despite my knowledge and expertise in pain relief, I still found myself unable to escape the constant daily pain and fatigue.

Sitting at a desk job from 9 to 5, or longer, plus endless meetings that seem to go on forever. The frequent traveling, the uncomfortable hotel pillows that make it impossible to get a good night’s sleep—I’ve experienced it all. I remember not being able to share my discomfort at work because I felt like an imposter, talking about pain relief strategies and focusing on work while I was not able to achieve it myself. I didn’t disclose the extent of my pain and forgetfulness to my colleagues for years. Even though I loved my kids and my job, I couldn’t give 100% to either. The discomfort held me back from reaching my full potential, making me feel guilty as a mum and less productive at work. I felt like I was constantly running on empty, unable to catch a break from the pain and exhaustion.

finally got fed up after years of trying and decided to make a New Year’s resolution to get ‘healthy’ instead of focusing solely on my pain, fatigue, forgetfulness, and weight loss. When I shifted my focus to getting healthier by reducing the inflammation in my body and addressing my adrenal fatigue, the pain started to decrease, my energy levels and focus improved, and the pounds started shedding off too! That, of course, meant a happier spine, nerves, joints, and a happier me! Today, my neck, back, and nerve pain are down to zero, my knee pain has reduced by 75%, my brain fog has reduced drastically and my energy levels are higher than ever. I realized that I had been focusing on the wrong solutions for over a decade!

Now, my mission is to share my knowledge of pain relief and managing adrenal fatigue along with my personal experience with other mums, especially those with younger kids who work in high-stress executive jobs. My goal is to help you find lasting relief, boost your energy, and reclaim your life, just as I did. 

If you can relate to all this, you are not alone. As a mum, I have been there and done that—momma, I got you! I’ve helped hundreds of mums in this situation over the years find their solution to manage spinal and joint pains, low energy levels, and brain fog that hold them back. This enables them to feel confidently in control and empowers them to cultivate that confidence and productivity at work and enjoy being with their kids, to be able to run around with them without the fear of injury or pain.

Are you ready for this journey? Ask me how if you are curious.

Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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