What’s Really Causing Your Daily Spinal (Back & Neck) Pain: It’s More Than Just Stress
As an executive mom, you’re no stranger to long hours at the desk, juggling Zoom calls, responding to messages and keeping your home running like a well-oiled machine. But if you are ending most days with a tight neck, sore shoulders, or throbbing headache, it’s not just because you’re busy. You might be dealing with something deeper and more fixable than you think. In this blog, lets discuss how things you do in your everyday routine may be the cause of these aches and pains and easy tips to manage them. 

Poor postures such as forward head posture or tech neck may be draining you:
When your head tilts forward for hours on end over laptops, phones, or tablets your neck muscles have to work overtime to hold it up. Over time, this creates a condition known as tech neck or forward head posture where your head is placed forward in relation to the body rather than in line with the body. In order to compensate for this poor posture the shoulders start to get rounded, which in turn leads to mid back rounding and an overall slouched posture. This postural collapse makes your neck, shoulder and upper to mid back muscles stay in a constant state of tension.

✅ Why This Matters:
  • This poor posture overloads your upper spine, compresses nerves, and creates that dull, persistent ache you feel by evening.
✅ What to Try Instead:
  • Set your screen 5 to 10 degree below the eye level, and take a moment each hour to gently roll your shoulders and lengthen your spine. This serves as a posture reset to help destress the spine. 


Your Nervous System Is on Overdrive:
Your nervous system is wired to respond to stress but when you’re always in go-mode, it can get stuck there. This leads to a cascade of physical symptoms like tight muscles, shallow breathing, and headaches that feel like they have no clear cause.

✅ Why This Matters:
  • Without resetting your nervous system, your body never gets the signal to let go of tension.
✅ What to Try Instead:
  • Practice breath work or grounding exercises midday, even for just two minutes, to shift into a more relaxed state. This can be in the form of simple deep breaths or box breathing. 
Chronic Tension Doesn’t Just Come from Stress:
Many executive moms assume that stress is the only reason they feel tense. While it plays a role, your body’s reaction to sitting still in poor posture all day builds muscular tension that lingers even when you “relax.”

✅ Why This Matters:
✅ What to Try Instead:
  • Start integrating small, mobility exercises into your daily routine to correct your posture, no gym required.
HERE is a free video guide on Quick and Easy Desk Based Exercises to avoid spinal & joint pain’ These are simple and easy exercises that can be done in under 2-3 minutes while sitting at your desk at work or from the comfort of your home. 

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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach & Certified Posture Expert

I help mums of young kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage back, neck, and nerve pain, even with low energy, brain fog, and little time to spare. My proven system delivers real relief without stealing hours from your already packed day. The result? More productive professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can be fully present with their kids, instead of being sidelined by pain.



My passion comes from personal experience. I’ve been where you are: in pain, overwhelmed, and exhausted. After two pregnancies in three years, juggling my kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was stuck in a constant cycle of back and nerve pain. The physical load of motherhood added strain to my spine and joints. Meanwhile, adrenal fatigue left me drained, even after 10–12 hours of sleep.

Everyday tasks became a struggle. I was forgetful, foggy, and low on energy. Even as a trained physiotherapist and posture expert, I couldn’t escape my own pain. I stood all day at work, spent evenings on the laptop, rocked my kids to sleep, sat through endless meetings, traveled frequently ... I’ve been through it all.

I kept my pain hidden at work, afraid to speak up. I felt like a fraud, someone who coached others on relief strategies but couldn’t find relief herself. I loved my job and my children, but I couldn’t give 100% to either. Pain was holding me back.

One New Year, I made a resolution: to get healthy, not just fix pain, fatigue, or weight. I focused on reducing inflammation, healing my adrenal fatigue, and reclaiming my energy. Slowly but surely, the pain faded. I lost weight, my brain fog cleared, and my energy skyrocketed. Today, my pain is nearly gone. I feel stronger, clearer, and more in control than I have in years.
And now, I want that for you.

I combine professional expertise with lived experience to support other mums like me, those with young kids, high-stress jobs, and no time for complicated health programs. I’ve helped hundreds of women reduce spinal and joint pain, lift their energy, and clear the mental fog that holds them back.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. I got you, mommy!

Let’s get you feeling strong, confident, and fully present at work and at home.
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Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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