Why Resting Too Much Might Be Making Your Back Pain Worse
As an executive mom, you are no stranger to exhaustion. Between managing a demanding career, keeping up with your kids, and trying to squeeze in a few minutes of self-care, it’s easy to believe that resting more is the best way to recover from aches and pains, especially when your back feels tight and sore. But what if too much resting is actually keeping your back pain around longer? In this blog, lets discuss why resting too much might actually be making your back pain worse. 

Rest is vital to recovery from  back, neck and nerve pain and in almost all acute injuries. However if you have been laying low, skipping movement, or spending more time on the couch thinking it will help your back "heal," you might be unintentionally fuelling stiffness, weakness, and inflammation instead. Here’s why:

Immobility Feeds Muscle Tightness:
When you stop moving, your muscles don’t "rest", they tighten and stiffen. Without regular gentle movement, the muscles supporting your spine lose flexibility, making every little movement feel more painful.

What Happens:
  • Muscles shorten and stiffen when not used.
  • Joints become less lubricated, leading to more friction and discomfort.
  • Blood flow slows down, reducing the nutrients needed for healing.
How It Feels: You may feel even more sore, achy, and stiff after "taking it easy" for a few days.

Weakness Sets In Fast:
When you avoid movement for too long, your core and back muscles start to weaken. These muscles are critical for stabilising and supporting your spine. When they are weak, your body overcompensates, putting more strain on your spine, joints and nerves.

What This Means:
  • Less support = more stress on your lower back.
  • Everyday activities (like lifting groceries or picking up your kids) feel harder.
  • You risk falling into a "pain-weakness-pain" cycle that's hard to break without intentional action.
Gentle Movement Heals, Rest Alone Doesn’t: 
The right kind of gentle, mindful movement helps your body heal by encouraging circulation, reducing  inflammation, and retraining your muscles to work together.

Simple Movements That Help:


HERE is a free video guide on "Quick and Easy Desk Based Exercises to avoid spinal & joint pain". These are simple and easy exercises that can be done in under 2-3 minutes while sitting at your desk at work or from the comfort of your home. 

Rest smarter, not harder! If you have been trying to "rest away" your back pain without improvement, it’s not your fault. You just need a new approach that balances rest with strategic movement.

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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach & Certified Posture Expert

I help mums of young kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage back, neck, and nerve pain, even with low energy, brain fog, and little time to spare. My proven system delivers real relief without stealing hours from your already packed day. The result? More productive professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can be fully present with their kids, instead of being sidelined by pain.



My passion comes from personal experience. I’ve been where you are: in pain, overwhelmed, and exhausted. After two pregnancies in three years, juggling my kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was stuck in a constant cycle of back and nerve pain. The physical load of motherhood added strain to my spine and joints. Meanwhile, adrenal fatigue left me drained, even after 10–12 hours of sleep.

Everyday tasks became a struggle. I was forgetful, foggy, and low on energy. Even as a trained physiotherapist and posture expert, I couldn’t escape my own pain. I stood all day at work, spent evenings on the laptop, rocked my kids to sleep, sat through endless meetings, traveled frequently ... I’ve been through it all.

I kept my pain hidden at work, afraid to speak up. I felt like a fraud, someone who coached others on relief strategies but couldn’t find relief herself. I loved my job and my children, but I couldn’t give 100% to either. Pain was holding me back.

One New Year, I made a resolution: to get healthy, not just fix pain, fatigue, or weight. I focused on reducing inflammation, healing my adrenal fatigue, and reclaiming my energy. Slowly but surely, the pain faded. I lost weight, my brain fog cleared, and my energy skyrocketed. Today, my pain is nearly gone. I feel stronger, clearer, and more in control than I have in years.
And now, I want that for you.

I combine professional expertise with lived experience to support other mums like me, those with young kids, high-stress jobs, and no time for complicated health programs. I’ve helped hundreds of women reduce spinal and joint pain, lift their energy, and clear the mental fog that holds them back.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. I got you, mommy!

Let’s get you feeling strong, confident, and fully present at work and at home.
Are you ready to start? Curious about how this works? Just ask.

Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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