Why Long Term “Resting” Might Be Making Your Pain Worse Instead of Better
As an executive mum, you’re no stranger to long days packed with meetings, deadlines, and the constant demands of motherhood. When you finally feel that twinge in your lower back or that nagging pain in your neck, the most natural response is often to lie down or take a break. After all, you’re already running on fumes, and rest seems like the logical remedy for any discomfort. But here’s a surprising twist: too much rest might actually be making your pain worse instead of better. Lets explore more in this blog.

Rest is vital to recovery from spinal and nerve pain. However excessive resting can aggravate pain. Some of the ways it does so are given here:
Decreased Muscle Support: Your muscles act as the scaffolding that keeps your spine and joints in proper alignment. When you spend extended periods lying down or avoiding movement, those support muscles weaken. As a result, they can no longer adequately stabilise your spine or joints, leading to increased strain and discomfort.

Reduced Blood Flow and Oxygen: Movement is essential for maintaining healthy circulation. When you stay in a sedentary position for too long' like spending your entire weekend on the couch, blood flow slows and the tissues that need oxygen and nutrients don’t get what they require. This can prolong inflammation and exacerbate pain.

Loss of Flexibility and Joint Mobility: Stiffness often sets in after a night’s sleep or hours of sitting. If you respond by lying down more, your joints miss out on the movement needed to stay lubricated and flexible. Over time, this can lead to even greater stiffness and discomfort, especially in the back, neck, and hips.



Here are some tips on how to gently introduce movement into your daily routine:

Strengthening Core and Postural Muscles: Targeted exercises that engage your core and support good posture (like planks, bridges, or modified squats) ensure your spine is well-aligned, reducing unnecessary stress on your back and neck.

Mindful Movement Prevents Overuse: If you’re dealing with neck pain or back pain, continuing to move in a controlled, low-impact manner helps you avoid compensations that can worsen pain or create new issues in other areas.

Gentle Movement Reduces Inflammation: Activities like light stretching, walking, or desk-based exercises help flush out inflammation and improve circulation. Even short 5-minute breaks during your workday can make a big difference in how you feel.

HERE is a free video guide on "Quick and Easy Desk Based Exercises to avoid spinal & joint pain". These are simple and easy exercises that can be done in under 2-3 minutes while sitting at your desk at work or from the comfort of your home. 

If you’ve been relying on extended rest to manage pain, it’s time to rethink your approach. Incorporating  gentle, consistent movement and focusing on posture can help you bounce back faster and feel more energised. Start embracing active recovery today and discover how a little movement can go a long way in improving both your comfort and productivity. You deserve to feel strong, capable, and ready to tackle whatever life throws your way.

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MEET SWATI

 
Hi there! 
I am Swati, an Executive Mum Power Coach and a Certified Posture Expert. I use my proven system to help mums of younger kids working in high-stress executive jobs manage their back, neck, and nerve pains, despite low energy levels and brain fog. I do all this without taking away a big chunk of their time out of their already busy day. This enables them to be more productive and capable professionals at work and guilt-free mums who can focus on their kids instead of always being distracted by pain. 



My passion for helping executive mums stems from my own experiences. I have been in the same boat and understand the frustration and helplessness of being in constant pain or being afraid to engage in activities due to the fear of pain. After two pregnancies in the span of three years and juggling my two kids, housework, and a demanding job, I was constantly in pain. The weight gain from motherhood added extra stress to my already overburdened spine and joints. I was stuck in a vicious cycle of weight loss and spinal/nerve pain that I just couldn’t break free from.

On top of the physical pain, I also suffered from adrenal fatigue. I often felt exhausted, waking up groggy even after a full night’s (10 to 12 plus hours!) sleep, and struggled with low energy levels and brain fog. Simple tasks became challenging, and I found myself forgetting things and unable to think clearly. It was incredibly frustrating and made it even harder to balance my professional responsibilities and family life.

My work involved long hours of standing during the day, prolonged hours on the laptop in the evening, and lots of running around and rocking my kids to sleep in between. Despite my knowledge and expertise in pain relief, I still found myself unable to escape the constant daily pain and fatigue.

Sitting at a desk job from 9 to 5, or longer, plus endless meetings that seem to go on forever. The frequent traveling, the uncomfortable hotel pillows that make it impossible to get a good night’s sleep—I’ve experienced it all. I remember not being able to share my discomfort at work because I felt like an imposter, talking about pain relief strategies and focusing on work while I was not able to achieve it myself. I didn’t disclose the extent of my pain and forgetfulness to my colleagues for years. Even though I loved my kids and my job, I couldn’t give 100% to either. The discomfort held me back from reaching my full potential, making me feel guilty as a mum and less productive at work. I felt like I was constantly running on empty, unable to catch a break from the pain and exhaustion.

finally got fed up after years of trying and decided to make a New Year’s resolution to get ‘healthy’ instead of focusing solely on my pain, fatigue, forgetfulness, and weight loss. When I shifted my focus to getting healthier by reducing the inflammation in my body and addressing my adrenal fatigue, the pain started to decrease, my energy levels and focus improved, and the pounds started shedding off too! That, of course, meant a happier spine, nerves, joints, and a happier me! Today, my neck, back, and nerve pain are down to zero, my knee pain has reduced by 75%, my brain fog has reduced drastically and my energy levels are higher than ever. I realized that I had been focusing on the wrong solutions for over a decade!

Now, my mission is to share my knowledge of pain relief and managing adrenal fatigue along with my personal experience with other mums, especially those with younger kids who work in high-stress executive jobs. My goal is to help you find lasting relief, boost your energy, and reclaim your life, just as I did. 

If you can relate to all this, you are not alone. As a mum, I have been there and done that—momma, I got you! I’ve helped hundreds of mums in this situation over the years find their solution to manage spinal and joint pains, low energy levels, and brain fog that hold them back. This enables them to feel confidently in control and empowers them to cultivate that confidence and productivity at work and enjoy being with their kids, to be able to run around with them without the fear of injury or pain.

Are you ready for this journey? Ask me how if you are curious.

Let's DO THIS!
xx Swati
** Executive Mum Power Coach **

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